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Therapy

Play Therapy and Art Therapy for Children

Young children rarely explain feelings in words. Through play and art, they show what is going on and practice new ways of coping.

Play is how children talk

A four-year-old will not tell you she is scared about the new baby or her parents' divorce. She might act it out with dolls, draw it, or melt down at bedtime. In play therapy, the therapist uses toys, art and stories to understand what a child is feeling and to help them work through it at their own level.

Play and art therapy can help with

  • Big emotions and frequent tantrums
  • Anxiety, fears and clinginess
  • Grief after a loss
  • Adjusting to divorce, a move or a new sibling
  • Behavior problems at home or school
  • Low self-esteem

How it works

  1. 1.

    Parents first

    The therapist meets with parents to learn the history and your concerns.

  2. 2.

    Getting comfortable

    Your child explores the playroom and builds trust.

  3. 3.

    Working through play

    The therapist guides activities that let feelings and skills come out.

  4. 4.

    Regular check-ins

    Parents learn what is emerging and how to help at home.

A young girl drawing with crayons in a bright playroom

Our play therapy clinician

Nikki Holmes, MEd, LPC Associate, is a former school counselor with 19 years of experience helping children, teens and families. She uses play therapy, art therapy, solution-focused therapy and CBT, and sees children from age 3. She is supervised by Dr. Sunetra Martinez, LPC-S.

What parents can expect

Sessions can look like simple play from the outside. Inside it, your child is practicing calming down, naming feelings and solving problems. Change often shows up first at home, as fewer meltdowns or easier bedtimes.

Other options for young children

Michelle Mitchell, LMFT, sees children from age 4 and often uses play with young children, including parents in the work. Family therapy can help when the whole household is under strain.

Questions

How young is too young?

Nikki Holmes sees children from age 3.

Do parents come into the session?

Sometimes. Parents are always part of the plan, and the therapist decides with you when to join.

Can play therapy be online?

It works best in person, though some parent coaching can happen by telehealth.

How will I know it is helping?

Watch for small shifts at home and school, such as shorter tantrums or easier goodbyes, and ask the therapist what they are seeing in sessions.

Help your child feel understood

Request an appointment online, or call or text 832-876-3232 and we will help you choose a therapist.